School still sucks.
My children obviously attend school. My daughter (Breanna) is in second grade, and my son (Nathan) is in third grade. They both go to the same school here on post, which is like a block from my house. That part is great because we just walk to and from school everyday, and it literally takes like two minutes. Now, when we first got here and they started school I discovered that I disliked Breanna's teacher...alot. I mean, shouldn't it be a qualification that you at least LIKE children to become a teacher? Maybe she did, and simply didn't like MY child (she's quite the handful). I'll give you an example. Nathan comes home from school the first week they started, and says that there's a school-wide field trip the next day that's going to Sea Life Park. His teacher told him that if he brought a sack lunch, the fee in cash, and a signed permission slip he could still go with everyone. Breanna had nothing, but knew about the trip. So we go and get stuff for two sack lunches, withdraw some cash, and sign his slip. We both walk them to school the next day, because we wanted to inquire about whether or not Breanna could do the same thing. We drop by the office and ask. The office says that its really up to the teachers, but shouldn't be a problem. So now Breanna is super excited! We go up to her classroom, and wait forever for the teacher to even acknowledge our presence (this is all before the bell rings). Finally, she comes over and asks us if we needed something (like we were just standing next to her desk staring at her cuz we think its cool and do it all the time...wtf?). We explain the whole situation to her, how we have a sack lunch for her, brought cash, will sign a permission slip, and already talked to the office...and what do you think she said? She actually said no. Can you guess why she said no? Perhaps no more room on the bus? They only had a certain number of "late" arrival tickets available and they're now gone? NO! She said no simply because she had set up a deadline for her class, and the deadline is passed. We were so caught off guard, we didn't even argue back. Poor Breanna was one of the only students left behind, so she had to hang out in the Kindergarteners room all day long. She was so upset. So your probably thinking "ok Amie, thats not really all that big of a deal" right? Well, you would be right I suppose. But the part that makes it a big deal is over the next month or so, its little stuff like that that gets under your skin. Another small example of this teachers' uncaring side is as follows. Breanna really likes to draw and write (she'll write anything, just copy entire books she's got down into her journal). So she thinks it would be really nice to draw and color a picture for her teacher. So she does, and takes it to school with her the next day. When we get home after school that day, I find the picture in her backpack and ask her if she forgot to give it to her teacher. She says no, that her teacher doesn't want it. I can feel the pulse in my neck start to tick...so I ask her what exactly her teacher said (calmly, she doesn't need to know I dislike her teacher after all)? She said that she gave the picture to her teacher, and her teacher said "I don't want that, take it home". WTF??!! What the hell kind of teacher does that? Aren't they supposed to be supportive and helping them build self confidence? That's just NOT a very good way of going about it then is it! I was mad now. I made an appointment to talk with the school about getting her out of that class and into a different one, but the office wanted me to bring it to the teachers attention first at the upcoming parent/teacher conferences. I was like "thats fine with me, I have no problem at all letting her have a peice of my mind". Unfortunately that never happened because due to overcrowding, Breanna was conveniently switched to one of the newly hired teachers classes. No problems now, she has a great teacher that encourages her creativity. Nathan on the other hand...his teacher is great, don't get me wrong. But is it too much to ask for you to just make sure that his homework is in his damn bag? I mean, I can't make him do it if I don't get it. Part of me doesn't even wanna make him do his homework because his teacher said that it doesn't even count towards his grades! They bring home so much homework, and it doesn't even count towards his grades?! Why the hell am I wasting my time by making him do something that doesn't even count again? Ugh, oh yeah, because I want him to be smart. Duh. Anywho, there's more to the "Nathan has no homework" story. I just don't feel like telling it right now. Long story short-school still sucks, even as a parent instead of a student. LOL! I'm really going to have to work on writing more often so that my post's don't end up being so long winded. Whew. Better next time, this one ended up being a kind of rant on my kids school. Ugh, toodles!